If you’re involved in a divorce or child custody case in Oklahoma, you’ll likely hear the term “parenting plan.” But what is it, and why does it matter? A parenting plan is a detailed, court-approved agreement that outlines how two parents will share custody and responsibilities for their child after a separation or divorce. In Oklahoma, parenting plans are a key part of any custody order and are mandatory when courts award joint custody.
What Does a Parenting Plan Include?
A well-drafted Oklahoma parenting plan addresses more than just who gets the child on weekends. It should cover both physical custody (where the child lives) and legal custody (who makes major decisions).
Typical parenting plans include:
- Custody designation – Who has joint or sole legal custody and physical custody
- Visitation schedule – When the child will be with each parent, including school breaks, holidays, and vacations
- Transportation arrangements – Who will pick up and drop off the child, and where
- Decision-making authority – How parents will make decisions about education, medical care, religion, and extracurricular activities
- Communication guidelines – Rules for how the parents will communicate with each other and the child
- Dispute resolution – How future disagreements will be handled (e.g., mediation or court)
Are Parenting Plans Required in Oklahoma?
If the court grants joint custody, Oklahoma law requires a written parenting plan. If parents cannot agree on a plan, each may submit their own, and the judge will choose or create a plan based on the child’s best interests.
Even in sole custody situations, a parenting plan can help clarify expectations and reduce misunderstandings.
Is it Possible to Change a Parenting Plan?
Parenting plans are modifiable if there has been a material change in circumstances and the changes are in the child’s best interest. Common reasons for modification include a parent relocating, changes in the child’s needs, or persistent violations of the current plan.
Either parent may request a modification by filing a motion with the court.
Tulsa Child Custody Attorneys
We help parents across the state draft, negotiate, and modify parenting plans that prioritize the child’s well-being while protecting each parent’s rights. Whether you’re going through a divorce or need help with an existing custody order, we’re here to guide you every step of the way. The Oklahoma custody attorneys at Tulsa Divorce Attorneys and Associates offer a free consultation. Just call us at 539.302.0303 or simply click here to ask a child custody legal question.