Family Lawyers in Tulsa Discuss Threats by Phone During Divorce

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Threats by Phone During Divorce is an absolute no-no in the divorce process. In a divorce, conversations and text messages can often become argumentative and sometimes threatening.  Offensive and obscene language are tale-tell signs of threats by telephone.  This is especially true if the language is in connection with threatening a person’s life.  If you feel you have involvement in threats by phone or other electronic medium in your divorce, let us know. Its important to understand that certain conduct during the divorce process itself can impact… Read More

Dividing Debts in Tulsa Divorce

Divorce vs. Legal Separation

Division of Marital Property and Debts: Dividing Debts in Tulsa Divorce is a complex legal issue. The Oklahoma law regarding property and debt division in a divorce requires the court to make an equitable division of all marital property, including debts.  Anything acquired during the course of the marriage is subject to division, including medical debts.  This equitable or fair division, is not the same as a 50/50 split.  Should the case go to trial, the court will consider the asset allocation and the parties ability to pay.  In… Read More

Tulsa Lawyers Discuss Genetic Testing in Paternity

  The need for genetic testing in Paternity cases arises when there is a need to contest or to establish who the father of a child is.  It’s important to note that fathers can only bring challenges to paternity, with very limited exceptions, within in the first two years after the child is born.  Additionally, genetic testing conducted individually by the parties is not admissible in court. This is because some of those tests may not be accurate. Rather, only Court approved tets will be admissable for Genetic… Read More

Oklahoma Same Sex Step Parent Adoptions

Oklahoma Same Sex Step Parent Adoptions are no longer a prohibited method of parentage. With the Supreme Court’s ruling establishing a right to same-sex marriage, laws in all the states including Oklahoma have expanded several rights for LGBT couples.  One of these new rights is for same sex step parent adoptions.  For years, without the right to marry we haven’t been able to accommodate the adoption needs of children and their same sex parents. Historically, parentage is either a heterosexual couple, or an agreement of a donor. But… Read More

Explanation of Protective Orders

A restraining order is a court document that prohibits one family member from having any contact whatsoever with another. The purpose of a protective order is to prevent an immediate risk of harm. An example of this is an angry spouse, a jilted lover or any other threatening family member. One important requirement is that the person who is threatening harm you is a family member. A family member also includes those in dating relations and in-laws. Common reasons for the order are alleged  domestic violence, stalking,… Read More

Family Emergency Custody in Oklahoma

There are times when a child is in imminent danger because one or both of parents are abusive. This abuse can involve drug use, sexual abuse, physical abuse or any other imminent risk of harm to the child. Oklahoma courts take the welfare of children very seriously. At those times the court must step in to determine in whose custody the child should reside under Oklahoma Emergency Custody rules. If after a hearing the judge determines that harm will come to a child he will order the child removed…. Read More

Marital and Separate Property in Divorce

When you are married, some of your property remains separate and some becomes marital property. If you later divorce, an Oklahoma judge will divide this marital property between you and your spouse. This division is known as equitable distribution. Equitable distribution does not mean that each spouse gets an equal share. Rather, equitable distribution means that the distribution must be just and fair. There are ways that you can protect certain property from your spouse in the event of a divorce, such as your family business. However,… Read More

How To Change Your Childs Name in Tulsa

Family and domestic  law allows for a parent to change your childs name in Oklahoma at the conclusion of three types of cases.  First, a spouse in a divorce may revert back to their previous surname.  Second, children subject to a paternity action may have their surname changed to that of the father’s.  Third, adopted children may have their complete and full name changed. Other than those three examples, if an individual wishes to have their name changed, they must petition the court.  For an adult to change… Read More

Grandparents Rights in Family Law

Grandparents are important members of a family. Speaking from personal experience, they want to be involved in a child’s life almost as much as the parents.  Therefore, it shouldn’t come as a surprise that grandparents are deeply concerned about the  interests of their grandchildren.  However, the title of the article is a bit of a misnomer. This is because in Oklahoma, grandparents and other 3rd party relatives have virtually no statutory right to visitation. Our Grandparents rights attorneys in Tulsa can help provided certain circumstances exist. When Can I… Read More

Step-Parent Adoption

There are several ways that adoption proceedings in Oklahoma can initiate.  The most common we see are when a step-parent wants to adopt a child.  Step-parent adoptions in Oklahoma are often rife with procedural complications.  An individual wishing to do this kind of adoption should consult with one of our step-parent adoption attorneys Tulsa. This will give you a better understanding of the requirements needed to ensure success. The Process of Step-Parent Adoptions in Oklahoma: The first step is to establish who is going to adopt from who…. Read More